Things to give up

2. Give up your need for control.
3. Give up on blame.
4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk.
5. Give up your limiting beliefs
6. Give up complaining
7. Give up the luxury of criticism.
10. Give up labels
11. Give up on your fears.
12. Give up your excuses.
13. Give up the past.

http://worldobserveronline.com/2012/04/25/15-things-you-should-give-up-to-be-happy/